In episode 23 of My Unfair Lady, Gordon Man (Frankie Lam) consults Saving Cheng (Vincent Wong), telling him marriage does not require a reason.
Saving: Gordon, why did you promise to get married to Molly?
Gordon: Getting married doesn’t require a reason.
Saving: Did you know you getting married also affects me?
Gordon: You are funny. How does me getting married affect you? I am not moving in with you. If you don’t have money, you can just not give us a wedding present. I will still allow you to come eat, ok?
Saving: It’s not about the present. You, Gordon, are the representative of playboys. What does you getting married represent? All men in the word can get married, they all need to get married. I am not ready. Did you know when Cherry told me you and Molly were getting married, she looked at me with teary eyes, as if she wanted to marry me right away. I… how can I reject her?
Gordon: She looked at you with teary eyes, but if you don’t have feel, you can reject her, right?
Saving: Plus Molly, she kept pressuring me with words. How can I say no?
Gordon: Ok, do you love her?
Saving: I love her, but love doesn’t represent everything right? I want to start a company, but I haven’t been able to do that. You’ve achieved some fame, but I haven’t yet. You were once rich, but I haven’t tried yet. And then what? When I get married, I need to take care of an entire family. It is not an easy thing. I also need to take care of her family. My family can easily have another two kids. It takes HKD 4 million to raise a kid. Where am I going to find that money?
Gordon: Then based on your understanding, I should not get married. I lost a high paying job. I even lost my apartment now. Then how can I get married? The problem is you need to have confidence in yourself first. Let’s go back to the first point. Do you love her? Do you want to get married with her?